Saturday
May202006

6 years later

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we're still ping-ponging in and out of happy marriage. we know exactly how we argue. we know each other too well. we rarely watch television together, we buy our own gifts and we retreat to opposite sides of the bed and sleep touching buttocks. and it does not mean anything. 6 years later he writes "I love you" in pink lipstick on the bathroom mirror and it's the most romantic thing. 6 years later I still shiver every time he grabs my neck or cups my face in his two hands.

Reader Comments (41)

Happy Anniversary!! A lovely post and a wonderful photo.
May 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterkristen
happy day to you both!
BABIES! YOU ARE BABIES!
May 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterblackbird
Awww!! I love this post. It's perfect. Happy Anniversary!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterVanessa
damn thats cute! love the honesty!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterjoelene
I love that picture. It's probably the best picture I've ever seen. For real.
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commentermama_tulip
Love the unique picture - and it sounds like a pretty great marriage. I'm seven months into mine and hope we'll have figured out lots of the same things at six years.

Happy, happy anniversary! Now tell us what you bought yourself! :)
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commentersamantha
I don't know why this took 2 days to show up in my Bloglines, so sorry I'm late in saying Happy Anniversary! What a wonderful, wonderful post...and one I relate to so very much...the ebbs and flows of long-term love...(sigh)... :)
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterMarilyn
love the photograph! you are so amazing at capturing real emotion in unique ways...here's to six years! congrats to you both. may your journey as husband and wife always be cradled in love, honesty, and a little bit of magic :)
~mindy
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commentermy pink sky
What a great photo! We are also a couple that sleeps "unentangled". Sometimes we spoon, but we eventually find our own side of the bed. Hey...maybe that's WHY we're happy! Happy Anniversay!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterwordgirl
Happy Anniversary! That picture is totally sexy sweet!!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterChris
beautiful photo, beautiful couple! Congratulations!! you describe a realistic relationship wonderfully.
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commentercarol
awesome. it's a lot more heartfelt, that message being written in korean.
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterbooyahman
wow...i'm really late! sorry!! happy belated anniversary!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterPink Rocket
Happy anniversary and what a lovely picture...
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commentersardunya
I like the photo and the grateful sentiment. Happy Anniversary.
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterWenda
You got it. Exactly. Perfection is not. No absolutes, and remaining you, while being You and honoring you and you. Love this post.

See you soon. :)
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterRonica
So sweet! Happy Anniversary!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterLynneth
Awww, Happy Anniversary, you two. Beautifully written, Irene. As usual. :)
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterNinotchka
That picture was the sweetest thing I've seen in a while. Happy Anniversary to you both. I hope you get to go out and celebrate!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterbella
Happy anniversary! It IS the little things isn't it? You are lucky to have eachother!
May 23, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterchristina

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